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Screen Name: Erich
Town/City: London
Area/State: London
Country: UK
Post Code: SW6
Occupation: Management
Profile Title
Me (Us) Against Mediocrity
Who I Am
Swiss national, been living in Africa for three years (first Dakar, Senegal, then Johannesburg, South Africa), just arrived in London and Sussex to work and study (Doctorate in Social and Political Thought, parttime). I hold Masters degrees in Public and Development Management (Specialisation in Governance and Public Policy) as well as Roman-Catholic Theology (though I dont believe) and did a commercial apprenticeship some years back. I worked in project and general management in the private and public sectors as well as NGOs in Europe and Africa and spent some years writing books. I am 30 years old and have the impression that my life that far has been empty do you know what I mean? You are an extraordinary man and you know it. You are different. Not like other people. You might feel that something is keeping you apart. Maybe you dont understand them. Youre 20-35, of any race or religion, promising if young, successful if older, or an outsider for good reasons. Youre an individualist. Youre rebellious. Youre absolute. You know who you are and what you want. Youll stimulate me intellectually. You may be an egotist, I am too, but we know that it is better to be egotistic and selfish together than alone and never when it comes to each other. Ill love to look at you (body and face, not fat, boyish or masculine), and youre as loving and caring as I am. I belief in quality rather than quantity. I want a lifelong monogamous relationship. Ouality rather than equality. Im no democrat. An intellectual terrorist, though, cosmopolitan, elitist, demanding, creative, dedicated, brutally honest, fat but ascetic: 178/150 kilo, very hairy bear-type. Straight acting and looking. Out, but non-scene. I know what I want, and now I want to find you. I do not want to be alone anymore. I want to live with my partner, and I'd like to have children. I come from one of those dysfunctional families, always was an outsider, and I find it difficult to connect to people. But I'm sure that somewhere you are, the one man (and for us there is only one) I will instantly connect to. And I will never leave you. I'm a romantic. I know what hate is, and therefore I believe in love. I don't need everyone to keep me down, I do need that one man who lifts me up who rises with me. Need to know more? Mail me.
Who I am Looking To Meet
- 02 Jun – Brent Hawkes (1950–), Canadian pastor & LGBT rights activist
- 02 Jun – Wentworth Miller (1972–), English-born American actor & screenwriter
- 02 Jun – Zachary Quinto (1977–), American actor
- 02 Jun – Marquis de Sade (1740–1814), French aristocrat, revolutionary politician, philosopher & writer
- 03 Jun – Allen Ginsberg (1926–1997), American beat poet
- 03 Jun – Anderson Cooper (1967–), American journalist, author & television personality
- 05 Jun – John Maynard Keynes, 1st Baron Keynes, CB, FBA (1883–1946), English economist whose ideas fundamentally changed the theory/practice of macroeconomics & the economic policies of governments
- 05 Jun – Federico García Lorca (1898–1936), Spanish poet, playwright & theatre director
- 05 Jun – Troye Sivan (1995–), Australian actor & singer
- 05 Jun – Gustáv Slamečka (1959–), Czech politician
- 05 Jun – Johannes, 11th Prince of Thurn and Taxis (1926–1990), German aristocrat & businessman
- 06 Jun – Harvey Fierstein (1952–), American actor & playwright
- 07 Jun – James Ivory (1928–), American film director
- 09 Jun – Cole Porter (1891–1964), American composer & songwriter
- 10 Jun – Maurice Sendak (1928–2012), American children's writer
- 10 Jun – Dustin Lance Black (1974–), American screenwriter, director, producer & LGBT rights activist
- 10 Jun – Sir Terence Rattigan CBE (1911–1977), British dramatist & screenwriter
- 10 Jun – Terrence Higgins (1945–1982), born in Wales. The Terrence Higgins Trust was set up in his memory, as he was one of the first people to die of an AIDS-related illness in the UK.
- 11 Jun – Mario Silva (1966–), Portuguese-Canadian legal scholar & politician
- 12 Jun – Jim Nabors (1930–), American actor & singer
- 13 Jun – Paul Lynde (1926–1982), American comedian & actor
- 14 Jun – Boy George (1961–), British singer-songwriter
- 14 Jun – Alan Carr (1976–), English comedian, broadcaster & writer
- 14 Jun – Paul O'Grady MBE (1955–2023), English comedian, broadcaster, actor, writer & former drag queen Lily Savage
- 15 Jun – Simon Callow CBE (1949–), English actor, director & writer
- 15 Jun – Neil Patrick Harris (1973–), American actor, singer, director & magician
- 16 Jun – Lou Sullivan (1951–1991), American author & trans activist
- 16 Jun – Joe McElderry (1991–), British singer & model
- 17 Jun – Clodovil Hernandes (1937–2009), Brazilian fashion stylist, television presenter & politician
- 17 Jun – Steven Davies (1986–), English cricketer
- 17 Jun – Carl Van Vechten (1880–1964), American writer & photographer
- 20 Jun – Allan Bell (1947–), Manx politician and Chief Minister of the Isle of Man
- 20 Jun – E. Lynn Harris (1955–2009), American author
- 22 Jun – Jimmy Somerville (1961–), Scottish pop singer
- 22 Jun – Sir Peter Pears CBE (1910–1986), English tenor. Composer Benjamin Britten was his personal & professional partner for nearly 40 years.
- 23 Jun – Alan Turing (1912–1954), English mathematician & computer scientist
- 25 Jun – Larry Kramer (1935–), American playwright, novelist & LGBT rights activist
- 25 Jun – George Michael (1963–2016), English singer, songwriter, record producer & philanthropist
- 26 Jun – Sean Hayes (1970–), American actor & comedian
- 28 Jun – Sunil Babu Pant (1972–), Nepalese politician & LGBT rights activist
- 28 Jun – Jim Kolbe (1942–), American politician, Republican congressman for Arizona (1985–2003)
- 28 Jun – David Kopay (1942–), American football player
- 28 Jun – John Inman (1935–2007), English actor & singer, best known for his role as Mr Humphries in Are You Being Served?
- 30 Jun – Alan Joyce (1966–), Australian business executive & CEO of Qantas Airways
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